Why Am I Waking Up Tired Even After a Full Night’s Sleep?
“I’m getting enough sleep, so why am I still tired?”
You might be going to bed at a reasonable time, getting what looks like a decent 7 or 8 hours, but still waking up feeling as though you could happily turn over and sleep for another few hours.
Maybe you get through the morning reasonably well, but by mid-afternoon you're struggling to concentrate and reaching for coffee or something sweet to keep you going.
So, if you're technically getting enough sleep, why don't you feel properly rested?
The answer is that how long you sleep is only part of the picture.
Are you actually getting enough quality sleep?
This is a good place to start because t's very easy to count the time between getting into bed and your alarm going off and assume that's how much sleep you've had.
However, scrolling on your phone, taking a while to fall asleep, or waking several times during the night can mean the reality is quite different.
I've written separately about how much sleep we actually need, so if you're not sure whether you're getting enough in the first place, have a read of that here:
Nevertheless, if you are getting a reasonable amount and you're still waking tired, there are a few other things worth considering and exploring.
Your brain may not be switching off
This is one I talk about a lot; in fact, a recent blog explored this.
We are incredibly good at being 'on' all day and, with work, family, emails, WhatsApp, social media, news, life admin...there is very little natural downtime anymore. Then we get into bed and expect our brain to switch off.
If you're still answering messages, working, scrolling or generally taking in information until the moment you go to sleep, you haven't really given yourself much opportunity to wind down.
Even if you fall asleep easily, it's worth asking:
When during my day do I actually stop? Sometimes creating a little more breathing space in the evening can be surprisingly helpful.
Stress doesn't always feel like stress, and almost everyone I work with tells me they're “not really stressed”.
Then we start talking and adding up all the factors: they're working, looking after family, rushing between commitments,http://difference.You thinking about tomorrow, waking in the night with their mind whirring...but because that's become normal, they don't necessarily think of themselves as stressed.
Stress doesn't have to mean feeling visibly overwhelmed - sometimes it's simply being permanently switched on. If your body and mind aren't getting much opportunity to properly rest and recover, it isn't surprising if you wake up feeling less than refreshed.
Look at your daily caffeine – not just your morning coffee
Most of us know that drinking coffee late at night probably isn't a great idea if sleep is a problem.
But caffeine can hang around in the body for longer than you might think, and we're all slightly different in how we metabolise it.
If you're regularly having coffee, tea, energy drinks or other caffeinated drinks later in the day, try moving them earlier for a week or two and see whether you notice any difference. You don't necessarily need to give up your morning coffee; it's simply about finding what works for you.
Alcohol can make you sleepy – but that isn't quite the same as good sleep
A glass of wine might make you feel relaxed and help you nod off more quickly, but alcohol can disrupt sleep quality later in the night. If you're waking regularly, waking early, or noticing that you feel particularly tired after drinking, it's worth paying attention to the pattern.
Again, I'm not suggesting you can never have an evening glass of wine - just notice what happens.
What and when you eat can matter too – balance your blood sugar
Going to bed overly full isn't particularly conducive to a comfortable night's sleep, but neither is going to bed absolutely ravenous.
Your eating pattern throughout the day matters too because this really impacts your blood sugar balance, which can wake you up in the night if poorly managed. Skipping meals, eating erratically or relying heavily on sugary foods and caffeine to get through the day can all be signs that your body isn't getting the steady nourishment it needs.
This is something I often work on with clients because improving energy during the day and improving sleep at night are rarely completely separate issues.
Hormones can play a part
For women in particular, sleep can change considerably through perimenopause and menopause.
You may suddenly find you're waking more frequently, sleeping more lightly or simply not feeling as refreshed in the morning as you once did.
Hormones aren't always the whole answer, but they're certainly one piece of the puzzle worth considering alongside nutrition, stress, lifestyle and your overall health. It is also possible to help balance them more calmly by addressing these factors.
Before you buy another sleep supplement...
Try becoming a bit of a detective first. For the next week, simply notice:
What time are you actually falling asleep?
Are you waking during the night?
When is your last caffeine of the day?
How much alcohol are you drinking?
Are you eating regularly throughout the day?
How much genuine downtime are you getting?
Are you on your phone right up until bedtime?
How do you actually feel when you wake up?
You don't need to track everything obsessively or try to fix it all at once.
You're simply looking for patterns. Feeling tired isn't always a sign that you need to try harder or push through. Sometimes it's useful information.
One small thing this week...
If you're waking tired, resist the temptation to overhaul everything. Choose one thing:
Perhaps move your afternoon coffee a little earlier.
Put your phone away 30 minutes before bed.
Eat dinner a little earlier.
Or simply give yourself some proper downtime in the evening.
Try it consistently for a week and notice what happens. Small changes are often much easier to stick with, and they can tell you far more about what your body actually needs.
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And if waking tired is an ongoing problem despite making changes, or you're experiencing significant or unexplained fatigue, it's important to speak to your GP or healthcare professional to rule out an underlying medical cause.
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